1.) Have you ever dated before? Yes.
2.) What was it like for you dating? It was a rocky experience for me dating.
3.) Who was the woman you dated? Her name was Sharon.
4.) How old were you and the woman was that you were dating? I was 24 & she was 31.
5.) What kind of person was this woman? She had a very low self-esteem about herself & used all of the bad experiences that she had to try and manipulate people into feeling sorry for her.
6.) If you would have known that she was that kind of person would you have dated her? No.
7.) Have this woman dated other guys before she met you? Yes she dated plenty of guys long before she met me.
8.) What made you and this woman become friends? I thought that she was a Godly woman who was just misunderstood. I thought she was serious about marriage because that was the reason I was dating her. I even believed her story about why all of the guys she dated left her. I was deceived by her.
http://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Jezebel/
9.) What did the woman's ex-boyfriends learn from dating her? The ex-boyfriends & me being one of her ex-boyfriends moms told us to leave her because she was no good & she didn't have respect for herself and that the woman just wasn't marriage material. We listened to our moms & left her.
10.) How have the experience you had dating motivate you to date the woman you plan on marrying or who is serious about marriage? My experience dating motivated me to trust in the Lord because God have a beautiful single Godly woman for me and me & her will be husband and wife.
11.) Do you online date? No.
12.) Why don't you date online? I've been in church all of my life & I've observed parents how they visioned me dating and marrying their daughter. Communication back then was how parents encouraged their children to date while being present & the parents were the matchmaker, telephone, and letters (old school ) was how it also done. Online dating does not interest me. I delete all Christian Singles, Match.com, E harmony and all other online dating websites emails that I get.
13.) Do you find it tough when it seem like you are online where there are more married people than there are single people on websites and it look like they are rubbing it in the faces of people who are not married? No. Those who are married online were once single & the fact that anyone would go online to try to make anyone jealous of them proves only one thing, that he or she has insecurity issues that they brought into their marriage. What is also disturbing is the fact that anyone would go on social networking websites where people have been through rocky relationships, a rough divorce, and a loss of a spouse proves how no one should act because the very same thing can happen to them.
14.) What advice would you give to those who have been through a rocky relationship, a rough divorce, or a loss of a spouse? I will encourage them & learn from them. I will understand that he or she have experienced worse things that I have in a lot of ways and I will tell them that I understand.
15.) What do you mean when you say in a lot of ways those who have gone through a rocky relationship, a rough divorce, or a loss of a spouse have experienced worse things than you have? When I was in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend back in 2002-2003 my ex-girlfriend had an apartment of her own in Tulsa, OK and I stayed with my ex-girlfriend from December 13, 2002-January 18, 2003. When I left my ex-girlfriend I went back to Connecticut and yes it hurt that I was in a relationship with a woman who only wanted to date but the pressure was off of me that I would have had on me trying to explain to people why me & my ex-girlfriend never got married had I would have stayed in Tulsa in the dorm rooms on campus for school. It would have looked like I was playing my ex-girlfriend when the whole time she was the one telling all her friends that her & I were plan on getting married when she knew all along that she had no intentions of marrying me. Not everyone that been through a rocky relationship or relationships, a rough divorce or divorces, or a loss of a spouse or spouses can say that because when he or she got their heart broken it was in the same state that it happened to them in.
16.) You are a warm-hearted person and have been through a lot. How are you able to still trust people? As a born again Christian I always see the good in people unless they prove me wrong but as an encourager if I can be an encouragement or help to them I will do that regardless of the disappointments & heartbreaks because that is what makes me stronger because of them. Anyway I can be a blessing I will try to be a blessing to others. I am focused on pleasing the Lord.
17.) Give a good Bible verse or verses encouraging others.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Jeremiah+31%3A13&version=KJV
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+5%3A3-12&version=KJV
